Our trumpet player’s wife, Janice, let us know that Mike’s early onset Alzheimer’s advanced quickly over the last year. She tried to find help during the pandemic which wasn’t easy and quite often felt as if she was suffocating. She was finally able to find Mike a place to live that gives him the care that he deserves. It has been a hard road for her and their 2 daughters who had been helping every week. Mike now seems happy and Janice feels confident that he is with kind and compassionate people who will care for him as well as she has.
Paul L, our piano player has been living in an assisted living facility for the last year or so. The home has a piano and Paul plays for everyone each day. He usually has a crowd watching, singing and clapping along. His wife, Marina, visits with him twice per day on Zoom. She is allowed to hold his hand outside with masks on at the home once per week.
Paul F, percussionist, piano player and singer is now living with a “family” that has a home with several patients. His wife, Franne, is able to see him on Zoom as well as in person, with masks on. She is relieved that he is with such loving caretakers who just last week, took him on “vacation” for a few days.
Leola, our smiling singer, is continuing to live in a small home that cares for a few patients at a time. She is happy there and her daughter, Denise, is able to pick her up for doctor’s visits. She has an iPad that plays the songs she loves to sing and Denise queues the music up whenever she visits.
Pat, our reluctant singer living with Parkinson’s, misses the in-person rehearsals a lot. (Due to Covid19, all weekly rehearsals are now held on Zoom.) Believe it or not, Pat is now the main caretaker of her husband and son. She is from New York and still has that “get shit done” attitude despite her own disease! Go Pat.
Irwin, Music Mends Mind’s co-founder and Carol’s husband, has entered hospice. His Parkinson’s and dementia have advanced to the point where he is no longer able to play the piano or walk. Carol feels like she may occasionally “get through” to him but for the most part feels as if she is living alone. She is lucky to have a caretaker for Irwin who is strong enough to lift him in and out of a wheelchair or bed. Her weekly Zoom sessions for Music Mends Minds are her sanity and happiness. Please join in and say hello! (link on April 6th blog entry).
Gene, our illustrious band leader and drummer, recently had deep brain stimulation….again! The procedure was a success and he is able to continue to live alone, drive and cook for himself. He values his independence and doesn’t understand why more people with Parkinson’s don’t have the same surgery! Yay Gene.
There are good options for help and caretaking if you know where to look. For anyone interested in some of the places noted here, please contact Serene@The5thDementiaDocumentary.com. I will be happy to pass along any information.